We swiped right in COVID and now 4 years later we’re saying I do. Come for the vows, stay for the dancing and oxtail stew… it’s a queer wedding in Martha’s Vineyard – it’s gunna be a blast.

Weekend Schedule >

THE HAPPENINGS

WELCOME DRINKS

FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 19
7PM - 10PM
THE RITZ CAFE

CEREMONY & PARTY

SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 20
5PM - LATE
SAILING CAMP
TRANSPORT PROVIDED FROM
ACCOMODATIONS IN OAK BLUFFS

GOODBYE BREAKFAST

SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 21
9AM - 11AM
UNCLE RUDY’S HOUSE
11 MARVIN AVE.
OAK BLUFFS

THE ATTIRE

MAXIMALISM

We’re throwing out the rulebook and going all in — think bold colors, dramatic silhouettes, textures, sparkle, patterns, accessories. Maximalism is all about expressing your unique style, so this is your moment to shine (literally or figuratively). Dress to impress, express, and maybe even outdo us — we dare you. If you're wondering “Is this too much?”, the answer is probably perfect.

Our ceremony will be outdoor and our reception indoor, so we recommend comfortable shoes for the grass/sand and for dancing the night away. If you have any questions, feel free to reach out!

And of course, this is all optional. There’s no pressure at all. Just be you!